Stubbornness in young people is a common behavior that usually manifests as resistance to listening to advice, difficulty accepting rules, and a firm belief that they are always right. Although it is often perceived as rebelliousness, in many cases it is a natural part of their growth process and identity formation. As the saying goes: youth is a disease that is cured with the passage of time.
Among the main causes are the need to assert themselves as independent individuals, the influence of their social group, a lack of experience in assessing consequences, and, sometimes, poor communication with adults. Emotional factors also play a role, such as insecurity, frustration, or the desire to feel understood and valued.
At that age, a lack of humility is very evident due to the belief of feeling self-sufficient, with a whole life ahead of them and invulnerable to illnesses and accidents. Without the highly valued humility, the adoption of behaviors with nuances of wisdom is almost impossible, which is the sure path to a sober adult life filled with existential happiness.
Possible solutions do not involve authoritarian imposition, but rather dialogue, empathy, and teaching through solid behavioral models. Actively listening, explaining reasons instead of simply imposing rules, and allowing young people to participate in decision-making helps reduce stubbornness. It is crucial to emphasize that every action or behavior has a result or consequences, and that every decision has its equivalent at the end of the equation: bad decisions bring regrettable results, good decisions lead to gratification and a benevolent quality of life. Likewise, establishing clear and consistent boundaries, accompanied by affection and positive examples, fosters a more open and reflective attitude.
In conclusion, youthful stubbornness can be transformed into a strength if channeled appropriately, fostering critical, responsible young people capable of learning from their mistakes. But it is also a definitive and conclusive concept that all of this is useless unless the eternal virtues that wisdom represents have been instilled in the young person's psyche. It is up to those of us who are older to kindly guide younger generations on their path to a life of productive and beneficial achievements for society as a whole.
Author: Moreno Villarroel
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