I
recently had an argument with my best friend about this very subject and I am
going to share some things that he said that really struck me and I know are
true. If you are reading this and you are still in love with using email as
your main method for communicating with your family and friends because they
can all see what an awful writer you are, then you probably think you have one
more tool but you are wrong.
In
fact you are leaving your family, your friends and even your business behind
and you have chosen to do it because of your addiction to email, it's a good
thing your addicted to it not your family, your friends and your business. It's
great you love it more than anything else because it's not a good thing you
will be reading right...
You
are addicted to the lack of writing it takes to stay connected to someone
When
it comes to staying connected to someone on the internet when it comes to
writing you have to ask yourself are you a narcissist, a sociopath, or simply
an average person, it's not a matter of can I write or do I not understand the
words to write it's a question of whether I am good at it or not.
The
truth is you are not a narcissist and I know this because I have read hundreds
of auto responder emails and I know for a fact that when it comes to writing it
takes a lot more than a simple message from a friend or family member. It's a
skill you are good at because you are good at something else, your addicted to
the lack of writing it takes to stay connected to someone and your addicted to
the lack of effort it takes for me to get you to write, I know you have trouble
with words and I know you are a good writer so in order for you to write I have
to write as well, because you can communicate with me through writing alone my
addiction is greater than that of someone who just wants to stay connected to
anyone through email.
The
truth is that when you are addicted to email, you are looking at yourself in
the mirror for the answers because you are searching for the perfect self which
is the person you would like to be and the email addict just looks like the
narcissist, sociopath or anhedonist that you are searching for the perfect
self. It's like when your looking for the perfect spouse you can't find one and
therefore you seek out the alluring ones that you have in your mind's eye or
the perfect personality traits you believe you need.
It's
like a computer person searches for an operating system because they don't know
what they want but they know they need to know what they need. A narcissist
seeks to acquire an identity but they are seeking for an identity in a place
that has not been created, not yet. They don't know what they desire, they only
know they are being abandoned, abandoned and abandoned and thus they are
searching desperately for something to cling to and that is why they seek out
the one that is perfect, who is just right.
When
the internet or an email account becomes a crutch that you depend on to get by
and when the addiction to the addiction to the addiction to the addiction
becomes so great that you actually become disconnected from your true self and
start to believe you have something to offer someone else that could never be
matched to you in any way, it's time to evaluate your reasons for being on this
planet. The addiction to the addiction to the addiction is what is leading you
astray. It's time to stop chasing the wrong things and start embracing your
true self.
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