Now we are generally pursuing the
state of being thin and beautiful. Thin people have certain advantages in many
things. For example, thin people have more choices in clothes. The aesthetic
trends of the society and the inconvenience have made many fat girls become
less and less self-confident, and even shrink in a corner to protect
themselves. In fact, today’s social aesthetic is relatively deformed, because
some people pursue the beauty of thin blindly. It seems that the thinner a girl
is, the more beautiful she will be. Girls who are slightly plump or obese are
not worthy of walking on the street. This kind of deformed aesthetics is
actually perverted. Many girls go on a diet to lose weight, just to become
thinner. To put it bluntly, it’s a prejudice against the body of fat girls. In
fact, fat girls also have many beauties, but some people’s aesthetics do not
understand the beauty of these girls. In this world, it is not only thin people
who are worthy of praise, fat girls can still live well. To improve
self-confidence, you must first explore the shining points, don’t pay attention
to the opinions of individual people, and improve yourself. So in the face of
appearance problems, how should fat girls stay confident?
1. Explore your
own advantages
Not all men like
the girls with same style. Although you may not be satisfied with your
appearance, you may be a kind and lovely person. You should always discover
more of your strengths and get to know yourself better. Don’t feel that obesity
is your fault just because of some people’s gossips. In fact, it’s not a
mistake to look at a person’s body. But fat girls can also improve their health
through their own reasonable diet and more exercise. The beauty of health is
the best. Therefore, you must not be presumptuous, even if you are a little bit
fatter. You should believe that people are the same. You can’t deny yourself,
don’t look down on yourself because of others’ opinions. If you look at your
strengths, you’ll find that you’re really great.
2. Make more
friends and take part in outdoor activities often
Don’t generalize.
Everyone is unique and you need to be sure of yourself. Appearance is not all
of a person; it’s just a part of it. Everyone has his own unique quality and
personality. Maybe you are born to be fat or become fatter than others in the
acquired environment; you should not deny yourself completely because of this
aspect. Fat girls should not be afraid of what others think of you, you should
go out of the house bravely and make more friends. Many like-minded friends,
whether of the opposite sex, or girlfriends, as long as you get along well with
each other, you should play together. All kinds of outdoor sports, such as mountaineering,
wading, square fitness, etc., are the most exercised activities, which are very
beneficial to the cultivation of interpersonal skills and the enhancement of
your social adaptability. (If you have a job, communicate with your colleagues
more often.)
3. Participate in
various public welfare activities to cultivate confidence
Everyone has
love, especially the fat girls. We suggest that fat girls can take part in more
public welfare activities and volunteer activities, such as volunteer work,
voluntary labor in welfare homes and nursing homes, and offer their love and
receive praise from others. Isn’t it very happy? And through participating in
public welfare activities, you can further cultivate your ability to devote
yourself to the society and serve the society. And you will gradually cultivate
a high degree of confidence, so that you can gradually get rid of the
inferiority complex in my heart.
4. Challenge more
and strengthen your sense of accomplishment
Some fat girls
lack self-confidence; they will close themselves in a small space and are
unwilling to communicate with others. But if you take part in more challenges,
you will find that many fat girls are actually very confident. In their hearts,
they think they are the most beautiful women; we call them ‘BBW’ which means
‘big beautiful women’, and this kind of girl is really beautiful. Also you can
find lots of big beautiful women on BBW hookup sites.
When something needs you to pay a lot or seems impossible to achieve, once you
accomplish it, you will have a great sense of accomplishment. Slowly, your
self-confidence grows stronger invisibly. So we usually need to do more things
and challenge ourselves.
Here are some
tips to help fat girls to become big beautiful women. If you want to join the
BBW social platform, you can check BBW apps.
Source: https://www.amazines.com/Female_Entrepreneurs/article_detail.cfm/6260131?articleid=6260131
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