It is a fact that In contemporary
world, women tend to rule more and more. We have everything for it but lots of
our precious qualities are hidden inside and covered by the external
influences. Shakuntali Siberia, Enlightened woman, Doctor of Psychology,
founder of the International Academy of working with subconscious “Gyud”, tells
us how to develop self-confidence and power that are slumbering inside each
woman.
Self-confident
person - who is that? Someone who knows exactly what he/she needs to be happy
and who is free enough to achieve that. So, a free and a happy one. We all are
born very self-confident, free and with the knowledge that we can rule this
world. But the pressure that we experience just right after we land here, take
this self-confidence away. It may be caused by the realities and routine of our
life or sometimes even by our parents - it doesn’t matter. Anyway, the effects
are really devastating.
A little bit of
Shakuntali Siberia experience - a striking illustration.
I was born with
understanding who I am and what I should do in this life. I knew exactly that
my predestination and benefit to other people was healing, so I tried to heal
and convince people to change something in this life. Imagine me,
9-years-old-girl, trying to explain to my mother’s friend that she is in a
pre-cancer state of health and that she must rush urgently to change something
in her life to avoid the disease. Very funny, of course. But that was what I
really KNEW about them, so I tried to help them from all my heart. And they saw
me like a silly girl having watched soap operas too much. Eventually, they
started being annoyed and finally concluded that I was crazy. All this doesn’t
inspire confidence, does it?
Regaining your
self-confidence back.
The only way to
come back to nature and regain your self-confidence is to get rid of the
external influence. As for me, I had to leave my home for good. Throughout the
next years, I have had to learn lots of things, and I was lucky enough to have
the best tutors you could imagine. Speaking about earning your natural
confidence back, I have learned by heart the following plain tricks that I am
gladly sharing with you now.
1. Use your
“disadvantages” as advantages. Many of us are unhappy about something in our
appearance. Ironically, it often happens that something that we have a great
deal about, occurs to be utterly invisible to the others. Anyway, the trick is
not to hide from the others what you desperately want to hide. This will lead
you to freedom.
2. Do not try to
be nice to everybody. Oh, this childish desire to please everyone, trying to
prove something to everybody. Stop. This is useless and ruins your life and you
as a person. For your wellbeing’s sake, you must learn how to tell NO.
3. Feel the
strength and freedom inside to accept NO. Sometimes it is scary, isn’t it? All
you need to learn here is that “No” doesn’t have anything with you, it is just
a mindset and - sometimes - a problem of your opponent. You should never take
it personally.
4. Compare
yourself only with former yourself. Say “No” to any comparisons with other
people. You do not know their life, their circumstances, their starting point,
their way of thinking. All you should always look at - at yourself moving
forward and earning your own happiness and success.
5. Once you have
chosen something, any doubts - back off! You know yourself, you know your way -
do not let the others, even the beloved ones, to interfere and turn you off
your road.
6. If you need
help - ask for it! You do not have to know everything, nobody does. There is no
shame to ask for help. On the contrary, asking for help tells about you as of a
very mature and confident person.
7. Your interest
is the priority. It is not about being selfish, it is about not to skip your
Bali vacation because of doing your colleagues’ work up to 3 a.m.
8. Feel the
gratitude, no matter what happens. No event in our life is a positive or
negative one. It is us who make it negative and positive. Try to find
positiveness in everything that you face. Sometimes it is hard but still
possible.
Being confident
is being yourself.
This is the
incomparable happiness - to be yourself. To face the world head-on, not to be
afraid to hurt somebody by a refuse or just by being who you really are. And
that doesn’t mean you should become selfish and do not care about the others.
It is about becoming happy. And make the others around you a little happier
too.
Author Biography:
Shakuntali Siberia is an Enlightened woman, Doctor of Psychology, founder of
the International Academy of working with subconscious “Gyud” and “Online
Temple School”. She helps all the people around the world to become healthy,
happy and regain the freedom of their spirits. Her latest unique course “12
Steps to the Return of Female Power” is created for all the women would return
their natural Power back.
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